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February 2012

37 posts

Jan 31, 201223 notes

January 2012

33 posts

Libraries, Meet Boing Boing → americanlibrariesmagazine.org

Would that I could remember my ALA membership password.

Jan 31, 20122 notes
#libraries #boingboing #web
“It makes me want to vomit. And not out of grossness — OK, a little bit out of grossness, but just nerves.” —

Kristen Bell, on dating (via sarka)

Two things:

  1. added Joseph (sarka) to Rethink’s blogroll
  2. Dating is not gross. You have to make up your mind before a date that whomever you’re going out with is going to have a good time. There are nerves, but you gotta be resolved “hey, I’m gonna make this fun for them.” The biggest issue with dating is that it’s artificial. When I’m trying to get to know someone nowadays, I’m doing less splashy things and more “mini-dates” - time talking over coffee, time spent shopping with someone, etc. Not that one doesn’t try to make that fun, either. It’s just more down-to-earth.

(via not-ideal)

I figured the little bit of grossness she referred to was from unwanted advances. 

Jan 31, 20129 notes
Susan G. Komen stops funding Planned Parenthood's breast cancer screenings → secure.ppaction.org

whynotshesaid:

ladyatheist:

Over the past five years, Susan G. Komen for the Cure Foundation funds have enabled Planned Parenthood health centers to provide nearly 170,000 clinical breast exams and referrals for more than 6,400 mammograms. These cancer detection and prevention programs saved the lives of women who often had nowhere else to turn for care.

Now, after facing criticism from anti-choice, anti-women’s health groups, the Komen Foundation has decided to stop supporting women seeking care at Planned Parenthood health centers. We are determined to make sure that these women can continue to get the care they need — and, as always, that means we are counting on you.

If you can spare the money, please donate. If you can’t, spread the word!

I donated earlier this month, and I’ll be donating again after this. If you can, consider doing the same.

(My most recent donation went to the National Network of Abortion Funds.  They actually called to thank me that day!)

This makes me want to cry. Komen, you are a cash cow—-who fucking cares if woman-hating conservatives criticize you? 

Or fine, go back to selling your toxic perfumes.

Jan 31, 201274 notes
“Fact: most American communities do not have the luxury of an indie bookstore and a library. More public libraries (9,225 according to ALA) exist than do independents in this country, so Random has done a wise thing by stepping up its library marketing and going deeper into the trenches to interact with patrons, likely part of the demographic who made “personal recommendations” (at 49.2 percent) the top ranking way that respondents in the Verso study found out about new books. Coming in at number two, not surprisingly, was bookstore staff recommendations (at 30.8 percent).” —

Heather McCormack—Editor, LJ Book Review—takes on libraries’ role in helping connect readers (and consumers) to books in “A Most Optimistic Unconference: Publishers, Libraries, and Independent Bookstores at Digital Book World 2012.” (via libraryjournal)

That’s right. Support your motherfucking library!

Jan 30, 201217 notes
bell hooks - Feminism Is For Everybody (free download) → excoradfeminisms.files.wordpress.com

I have yet to read this. I still have Feminism: From Margin to Center on my shelf, waiting. But as I emphasize over and over to everyone, she’s damned important in the study of women’s studies, African-American studies, and the general breaking down of societal hierarchies.

Jan 26, 20122,127 notes
#bell hooks #books #feminism #feminism is for everybody #textbooks #women's studies

burndownthedisco replied to your quote: The big difference between gay life and straight…

i’m skeptical of any essentializing anyone does about what’s “normal” for hetero vs. homosexual couples. there are people who burn their bridges and their are people who don’t. basta.

My first instinct is to be skeptical as well, though I really would like to know if there is a difference in trends between gay and straight ex-relationships. Maybe it’s true that gays are friendlier with their exes because they aren’t as likely to view them as the sexual other, whereas lots of straight men and women are interested in the opposite sex more as potential objects of desire, and aren’t necessarily open-minded enough to pursue a platonic friendship. I don’t have any evidence, however, other than the anecdotal.

Jan 25, 20125 notes
#friendship #gays #straights #exes #relationships
Jan 24, 2012446 notes
“The big difference between gay life and straight life is the way we deal with our exes. I always talk about “shabby heterosexual values” because there’s definitely an attitude of “off with their head”. I know lots of gay people who don’t think that way, including two men who run an antiques business together even though they broke up 20 years ago.” —From the Guardian: This much I know: Edmund White. I’m not sure I buy what he says here. Avoiding your ex like the plague, unless there was some serious heartbreak, is pretty widely regarded as immature, I thought. Plus, I’ve known gay people who avoid their exes. What do y’all think?
Jan 24, 20125 notes
#dating #exes #edmund white #the guardian #heterosexuals #homosexuals
Jan 24, 20123,069 notes
Jan 23, 20129 notes
#Books #lit #covers #book jackets #allende #harlan ellison #fiction #used books
Jan 22, 201274 notes
“It is illegal for women to go topless in most cities, yet you can buy a magazine of a woman without her top on at any 7-11 store. So, you can sell breasts, but you cannot wear breasts, in America.” —

Violet Rose, in Three Steps to Better Sex (via muffdiver)

This reminds me of the post going around which contrasted the pathologizing of public breastfeeding with the gratuitous, objectifying images of women’s breasts that can be found in advertising.

The legal and social message is that our bodies are for purchase and exchange between men—and their liberty to buy us and sell us should never be infringed! NOT EVER! FIRST AMENDMENT! FIRST AMENDMENT!—not for us to do with as we please. Never that! (via mswyrr)

Jan 21, 201210,909 notes
Damnit

After using the phrase today in a different context, I just learned that “skin in the game” was coined by Warren Buffet to refer to investors who buy stock in their own companies. Not that I hate Warren Buffet, but it does make me feel dirty somehow.

Jan 20, 201228 notes
#language #skin in the game #warren buffet #investment talk ewwwww #to revisit
Femonster: Let me just begin by saying, → feministblackboard.tumblr.com

Funny, I was just looking at pepper spray products online yesterday. My roommate keeps telling me stories about someone she knows getting followed and attacked, so I thought I’d better think harder about protecting myself. I, too, was annoyed by all the pink on the site. It’s condescending as fuck. It’s a big commercial jeer at us for feeling like we have to buy products that *might* make us safer. They probably won’t, though, because you could be attacked anywhere, anytime, and won’t always be lucky enough to have the spray in your hand at the right moment. 

whynotshesaid:

feministhistorian:

[tw: rape culture]

theforthrightfeminist:

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This is what my pepper spray looks like. For the record, I didn’t buy it for myself, my parents got it for me. As I was walking out of Wal Mart tonight, without it, it donned on me on how fucked up it is. Not only the fact that I need the weapon itself, but it’s color.

It’s like, we’re trying to make rape culture cutesy. Same goes for pink tazers. Pink handguns. We’re trying to make these weapons adorable in order to distract ourselves from the reason we carry them: to prevent ourselves from attackers. 

Not only that, but the pink is geared toward women (or people who identify as women). There isn’t any blue, masculine mace. Why? Because men aren’t the ones who carry it around. How fucking terrible is that? “Here you go, you cute little girls, here’s a pink weapon to protect yourself from potential rapists and/or murderers.” It’s furthering the idea that rape and violence towards women is acceptable. It’s saying because our ways of protecting ourselves are cute and stylish, we’re harmless. Weapons should never make a fashion statement.

I’m planning to get some mace for when I run at night but I’ll be skipping the cutesy-poo pink mace and heading straight for the local weapons/ammo store. 

Jan 20, 20122,267 notes
#mace #pepper spray #self-defense #women #politics #feminism
Knitting Meme

For my own consideration. I’m sure none of you care.

Read More →

Jan 19, 20123 notes
#knitting #memes
Jan 19, 201255 notes
Clan of the Cave Bear: Classic Trash Style → theawl.com

Bah, I NEVER masturbated to CotCB. Ick. That’s what the rest of the series is for.

lazybookreviews:

You know you want to.

Jan 18, 201225 notes

I don’t know about this name change.

Jan 18, 2012-1 notes
Call your senators, but be polite → leeflower.livejournal.com

After I posted the previous entry, I remembered something someone who worked on the Hill mentioned about jerky constituents who call and yell at them. A tip: don’t yell at the staffers who answer the phone. It’s their job to record your position if you’re a constituent, but that’s all they can do. You are one of many, many people calling, and you can imagine what it’s like to take calls from asshole after asshole, albeit idealistic, crusading assholes.

Jan 18, 201217 notes
#activism #sopa #pipa #calling #constituents #the hill #staff
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